I highly recommend this confidence-boosting exercise to everyone -- whether you're a gardener or not. Take a look at the very first photos you took when you moved into your current place, look at old photos of your kids, and definitely look at throwback high school and middle school pictures to feel the rush of pride at how much you've grown and changed since those pictures were taken.
After looking at pictures of our yard taken in the Spring of 2011, I feel like I can do anything.
The first picture is the earliest picture of the back yard that I could find.
|Old deck, old dog run in the background and young pup in the foreground|
|Awww look how little Scout is! We moved the fence and gate to create a landscape side and a fenced-in garden side|
|Unfortunately, I haven't retired that "outfit" yet. Not really something to be proud of, but whatever.|
|The family before us used the back part of the backyard as a dog run, so I spent a couple of weekends digging up weeds and picking up large piles of dog poop|
|What I call the "wildflower patch" to the right of the garden beds|
|Inside of garden fence 2011. Hollyhock in left corner has now abundantly self-sowed through this area.|
|View from deck in May 2014|
|Landscape in early June 2014 - green grass complements of a wet Spring|
|Full-grown Scout and always-growing landscape in July 2014|
|Landscape in July 2014|
|Inside of garden area with self-sowing Hollyhocks dominating, July 2014|
|Other side of garden fence, July 2014|
|Veggie garden in early June 2014|
|Garden in early July 2014|
|Wildflower patch and garden in 2014|
|Wildflower patch in 2012|
|Wildflower patch 2014 - Wild Four O'Clock below sunflowers|
When we were visiting my in-laws in Wisconsin over Memorial Day weekend, my mother-in-law told me she gives me credit for getting anything at all to grow in our less-than-ideal gardening conditions. I replied humbly, "I give me credit, too!" It's a good feeling to allow yourself to be proud of what you've done. If I compared my little beginner garden to the those of more experienced gardeners, I'd never feel proud of what I've accomplished. So I say forget about comparing yourself to others; compare you to you and let yourself enjoy the pride of how you've grown and changed.